Okay, when I put the question out there…what do you want me to write about…and agreed to write about whatever was suggested, I knew it might get interesting. One of the topics I was asked about was my personal masturbation fantasy. Hmmm….I decided to modify the topic slightly because well, I just did:-)
I have been contemplating what I call “masturbation manifestation” through “orgasmic meditation” for quite some time, so I thought I’d take this opportunity to share. I’m sure many of you have watched movies like The Secret and What the Bleep Do We Know? If not, the basic idea is that we have the ability to create our reality through the power of our minds.
I wholeheartedly agree. However, this entire line of thinking can get pretty complicated when we start to think about negative aspects of our lives and say that we are responsible for those experiences. That is not what I am saying. What I am saying is that, there are aspects of our lives that we are able to alter through positive thought, energy, and the power of prayer or intention.
When I think of energy, specifically the most powerful energy, I think of life force energy, or sexual energy. In fact, I researched the use of sexual energy throughout history. What I found is that sex magic/sexual manifestation has been around for a very, very longtime. So, call it silly if you like, but when I am manifesting something in my life, I direct not only my mind, intention, and positive thoughts, but also my sexual or orgasmic energy towards my desired outcome.
For me, the process goes something like this…I run a bath, fill the tub with hot water, bubbles and a few drops of organic essential oils, then light a candle, turn out the lights, strip down, sink into the water and simply bask in the beauty of the water, sensual aroma and candlelight. I then begin breathing deeply while focusing on my sexual energy. I imagine drawing my energy in through my yoni and up through all of my chakras until it reaches the crown of my head.
I imagine my energy flowing gently through the air and circling back down through my yoni. I continue to visualize and feel this “loop” of sexual energy flowing through every cell in my body. I then begin exploring my body, truly feeling my body and energy….as my arousal deepens, I continue breathing deeply, feeling the intense power of my sexual energy as it begins to increase in intensity.
Then I focus my sexual or life force energy towards my desired outcome. For instance, if I am trying to make an important decision, I focus on the question. If I focus long enough, an answer will come to me. The more I manifest through orgasmic meditation, the more skilled I become and the faster my answer comes to me (seriously, no pun intended). I have an extremely visual mind, so I see my answer rather than hear it, but everyone is unique and there is no right or wrong way to manifest or gain clarity.
When I feel focused, I imagine my energy flowing from my yoni towards my desired outcome. I often create some sort of an affirmation to go with my vision. Then I give in to arousal and allow my orgasmic energy to flow….I can literally feel the energy surrounding me. At some point I draw the energy back into me with the thought clearly in my mind that I have solved my dilemma and the positive outcome is secure. I then relax back into my bath, intentionally slow my breathing and give in to the essence of the moment.
It is not only a wonderful way to focus or make decisions in life, it is also an excellent way to let go of stress or tension in your body. You can also lay in bed, sit in secluded and private space in nature, or stand in a hot shower..As long as you keep your intention positive, I truly believe anything is possible. This can even be a spiritual process if you are in the right mind frame. You can also modify the process to include your lover.
From my heart to yours, Joy