Just a quickie:-) Pun intended…except, I suppose the title doesn’t match the story at hand…ha! No pun intended on that one! So, off grid, back to the land, hippie ville living is, as I think I have previously mentioned, intensely beautiful, but also intensely challenging. To wash dishes, I must fill a five gallon water container from our water storage, lug it into the house, fill the water container with a spout that I wash dishes with, heat some water, then…after all of this is done…wash the damn dishes! Whoosh! With anywhere from 7-10 people, 8 dogs, 2 cats, 2 rabbits and the preparation involved in getting ready for our chickens, horses and goats that are soon to join the Nelson family…each day is filled with fun, yet difficult work…
I…hate….to admit it…but the intensity of everyday living was leaving me a bit bummed out! By the end of a sun up to sun down day of work…I feel pretty zapped. I can’t believe it, but for the first time in my life (other than our miscarriage days) I have found my sex drive lacking. Now, when I say “lacking” I’m talking 2-3 times a week…I MIGHT desire sex…Considering that Mountain and I generally make love or participate in intense foreplay almost daily…we were both starting to get a tad worried.
Luckily, our communication is excellent…so we managed to discuss our challenge and find a way to break through. What we did, was decided that making love down the hall from the kids, although satisfying…felt a little restrictive – so we created an outdoor love nest. Also, I was finding the intensity of our work load a little draining – so we decided to slow down a little, take more time for fun and outdoor exploration…AND…we found that taking more time to connect is truly increasing the quality of our connection, pleasure and passion. Today, we began reading a Deepak book down by what we refer to as our “Echo Tree”…we read, talked and explored the vast depths of our emotional connection, physical and spiritual connection.
What was so lovely was that we were able to see where we were, talk about it and create change. We ended up having a sensuous love making extravaganza that lasted multiple hours, multiple orgasms and multiple positions…MMMMM….I feel a tingle down below as I type. Mountain managed to use his expert tongue to melt my tension…as I experienced orgasm after orgasm…I truly felt lighter, more connected and deeply empowered! That’s all she wrote….from my heart to yours, Joy
Doesn’t match the post, but I love this vintage pic! So enticing!
Loved this!